My Year in Haiti

My Year in Haiti
It's All About the Children

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Top 5 Reasons I Know I'm Getting Used to Haiti

#5  I don't wince in the shower any more. I am actually enjoying the briskness of the cold showers

#4  It no longer phases me that fine dining establishment don't have running water. I now carry TP and hand sanitizer whenever I go out.

#3  I  don't break a sweat just thinking about moving my body. I have to actually do something to get all sweat and gritty.

#2  I am starting to know the shortcuts to get around.

And the number 1 reason I know I am getting used to Haiti
(drum roll please...)

I walked aroumd the entire day with a popcorn husk stuck in my bra and didnt find out till i got in the shower!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

The spirit of Haiti

One of the things I love the most about my new home is the enduring spirit of the people I share my days with. Regardless of the long hours, the meager wages, the burden of caring for 35 cildren and young adults, more often than not without the convenience afforded by electricity, the women that work here show up with smiles on their faces, loving kindness abounding, and diligently perform their work. Well, at least for the most part.

Most of them great me with the customary kiss on the cheek, smile and tell me they love me. And danged if I haven't come to love them in return. It's the little things that count. I firmly believe that. What to you may seem like such a trivial gesture may be more compassion than the recipient has ever been shown before.

For example, one day I asked the cook to change two American dollars for me. $1 US is worth $8 Haitian, but there are no Haitian dollars. The country's currency is in Haitian Gourde, (pronounced good). There's 5 Gourde to a Haitian dollar and about 40 Gourde in a US dollar. She didn't quite have enough to change the whole $2and I told her that was fine with me. The next day she came with 3wonderful Mangoes They had to have cost more than the entire $2! But she insited. So I had her show me the Haitian way to cut a Mango, and then i shared it with everyone, including the entire staff. Then I doled it out to my nest of peeping baby birds to cries of "mwen, mwen"

The woman who does our laundry always has a smile for me. Even on the days when we have no city power and she has to wash, ring, and hang clothes and linen for 20 plus people by hand. One day she came and asked me for more clothesline. I had some picked up the next time we were out.  You would have thought I split my Lotto winnings with her for the joy that gave her!

I've thoroughly impressed most of the men that come to the Mission to work on various mechanical or trade related chores. It really surprises them that I have a working knowledge of so many areas that are typically not in the realm of "women's work" For that I owe an eternal debt of gratitute to my papa for instilling in me a sense of wonder at the way things work to the point that iI know my way around a combustible engine, plumbing, and how to throw a hammer at a nail. Today I taught Kervens (my hHitian son) how to hammer naills imto a piece of board and we made a key organizer.

Well, my friends and followers, my Ipod just finished my playlist which means it is time to go to bed.

TTFN

Stay tuned!

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Long Overdue

So, turn out Murphy had it right. So many things went sideways after I got here and this is my frst opportunity to post. I'm posting from my Kindle so I'll keep this short. hopefully we will have power tomorrow and I'll have a chance to update. I've got several posts typed up and just need to get them uploaded.

I'e lost 20 pounds so far, but not my spirit. My first trip home is in 13 days and I finally got a chance to call home! I can't wait to see every one.

A special thanks goes out to Vince amd Marci at Majik Graphics and all the business owners and emplyees of the Macomb County Chamber's Think & Link networking group for the geneous donation of over $400 in school uniform shirts with custom lettering for the Have Faith Haiti school. The children will look so nice!

All for now. Stay tuned for more!
   

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Photos from week 1

picaso photo album to go with previous post

Click on the link above to view album.
eventually I will learn how to use this!

Checking In

Well, It's been an exciting first 10 days. I could not possibly talk about everything I have experienced but here are some of the highlights:

If you think you cannot possibly take the oppressive 96* heat with 80% humidity for even one more minute, just wait. The children do the chicken dance and all is well in the world.

I taught the kids to do the hokey pokey. Without saying anything about it, they all giggle wildly when we "put your bottom in and shake it all about".

Maybe the rest of you make hay while the sun shines, but in Haiti you tend to move a little slower when the sun shines. However, when it rains you better bet your bottom dollar this girl runs out and dances in the sweet wetness as it washes the dust from my face and arms and feet!

It's funny, the Haitians are very superstitious about the rain. I was letting some of the children put their hands in the rain and one of the ladies told me that they had always heard it was bad to go in the rain, that it will make you ill. I told her that when I was a child I remember that dancing in summer rain was one of my favorite things to do.

We celebrated birthdays for two of the children: Samanza turned 9; and Lowinsky turned 22.We ordered a cake from Epi D'oh. The young lady in the cake place seemed confused when I asked what flavor the cake was. The first cake was mocha raisin. I said no way because I remembered the children don't like raisins in their oatmeal. When I mentioned this to one of the older girls she laughed and said they would like raisins in cake, it's just they don't like it in the oatmeal. Funny kids! The second choice was weygan with marshmallow. Mr. Alain, the director, was with us and helping with interpretation. He wasn't familiar with this flavor so it was a gamble. Turns out it was coconut in a type of yellow cake. It was VERY heavy, but very yummy!

At dinner time I presented Samanza with the birthday crown generously donated by Melanie Spranger  of Let 'Em Be Little in Madison Heights www.letembelittle.com . She makes custom decorated crowns. She can be contacted at letembelittle@gmail.com If I discover her website I will add it here. I met her during a craft fair in Mt. Clemens, MI and when I mentioned that I was going to Haiti for the year and what I planned to do with the birthday crown tradition started by my BFF, she offered to provide a birthday crown gratis.

The children love story time and DVD movies and singing. They cannot get enough. Some of the stories keep them in rapt attention and some fall on dead ears. It just depends. They have such limited exposure that some things don't make sense to them. But don't despair too much. You would be amazed at the things they pick up! One of the boys loves to break out in these gangsta rapper hip-hop poses. It's enough to crack you right up! But the stories are their favorite. The older girls, and some of the boys, help me interpret them so the little ones can understand. Some of them are very good at acting out the stories.

The other day, I read Tap-Tap to the children. It is a story about a Haitian girl and her mother taking fresh oranges to the market. The girl is excited because she is finally old enough to go with her mother but she is disappointed because she wanted to ride in a tap-tap, which is a type of mini-bus used as a share-cab in Haiti: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tap_tap . This book was purchased by my dear friend, Pat Hill, owner of Bodhi Seed Yoga and Wellness http://www.bodhiseedyoga.com/ The children really enjoyed this story. The older girls liked it so much they borrowed the book to read again and have been passing it around ever since.



So, I hear former prezo Cigar Smoker is in town. I think that must be why we have electricity. That is fine with me. I hope he stays until November!


That is all for now...stay tuned for more!


Thursday, August 11, 2011

Mwen yo te rive ( I have arrived)

Oy! What was it that guy Murphy was wont to say from time to time? Something about things going wrong, blah, blah, blah...I think Murphy may have spent time in Haiti!

Day four and I'm still gettnig my bearings. The kids are enjoying the many gifts that were provided by so many of you that I will need to run a seperate post for the thank yous...suffice it to say, the toe shaped flip flops were a huge success, so if any of you Chamber ladies are reading this, we need several more pairs of the size M and L and XL of the toe shaped ones, and several more pairs of the adult sizes of each size. I was suprized to realize how large the older girls feet were. It didn't seem so when I was here last, but then again I'm not sure I was really pauying particular attention to that.

So, here's what I've learned so far: You can never drink too much water; you can never wear too much bug spray, and wicking fabrics are a chubby girls best friend.

Take care and keep checking back. My access to the computer is limited so I'll catch you later!

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

New Move Date

So I finally have a confirmed move date, for now. Sigh. This assignment will surely be a life changing opportunity in more ways than I can count. Any body that knows me knows that I thrive on being on top of things. I am a do-er, not a watcher. If you give me a job to do, you generally don't need to come back to see if I am a) doing the job or 2) doing it correctly because I generally 1) do it ASAP and b) get it done better and more efficiently than you expected.

Maybe this is a side-effect of all of my military training, or perhaps related to my OCD and Type A personality combined, who knows. The point is, all of this "not being in charge" "not being in control" "waiting for the stars to align" will be a growth opportunity for me to learn to be more patient and accomodating of the way the rest of the world operates!

Anyhoo, my move date is August 8th. Between now and then I will be spending as much time doing the things I enjoy with the people I enjoy spending time with. Hopefully I will make it to the 8th with all of my hair still attached!

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